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4 Easy Ways to Keep Your Relationship Spicy!

Let’s talk dating! According to Black Twitter, relationships are hard to maintain, and they may be right. Keeping things fun and fresh with your mate can be hard work. Mix in a global health pandemic, limited funds, and social distancing and sis we have a problem. Don’t worry! We got you covered. Here are 4 easy ways to keep your relationship spicy!

It’s the quality time for me.

  1. Cater 2 U - Mama always said the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach, but us girls love a good meal too! Pick a meal that neither you nor bae has prepared before and cook it together. This is the perfect time to joke around in the kitchen while also working together to create something you’ll both love. 

  2. On The Run - Go on a quick adventure together by visiting a nearby city or state. This is a cost-effective take on a romantic getaway. According to the U.S. Travel Association, couples that travel together have healthier, happier relationships. Don’t forget to pack cute outfits and wear your mask. 

  3. Boo'd Up - Can’t go out of town right now? Stay local. Find fun activities like go-carting, wine tasting, horseback riding, or paint and sip in your area to keep date night unpredictable. This is a great way to experience new things and learn more about your partner while creating fun memories together. 

  4. Something In Common - Communication is key, but it can be a difficult bridge to cross. Strike up deep conversation by watching documentaries together. This is a great way to learn your partner’s political views, get their take on what’s going on in the world, and build a stronger connection. Bond over your love for a particular cause.

Nothing is more precious than time and these past few months have taught us all how fast it can fly by. Learn your partner’s love language and I guarantee it will make the time you spend together special. Need more ideas? Search for date night ideas on Pinterest.


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